Identity vs Self-expression Like your identity, your self-expression is not static. It changes over time, and I’m sure you’ll see exactly what I mean if you look at a few old pictures of yourself, or even reflect on how your interests and hobbies have evolved over...
I started an OnlyFans account in October of 2021 to have a place to share my uncensored sensual self-portraits. I felt stifled by Instagram’s policies. In some ways, I felt angry because it felt so unfair. I did and still do think of my OF account as its own act of...
When I was little, I wanted to be a blue dog. I wanted to be an actress, or a model. I wanted to be an adventuring archaeologist, like Indiana Jones. A marine biologist. A veterinarian. A spy. A lawyer. A writer. An anthropologist. A photojournalist. People ask you,...
I decided to start writing this series mostly as a way to approach human design with a bit more fun. I find we can get wrapped up in the wealth of information and all the technicalities of it, that it starts to feel draining (said the projector with open head and ajna...
For a quick background on cosmic or true sidereal vs tropical human design, check out this post. If you need to get your charts, you can get your tropical human design chart at Genetic Matrix (affiliate link) and your true sidereal / cosmic human design chart at...
Season 2 is available on Vaness Henry's Spacious App bringing with it new, immersive sound environments. (I am in no way affiliated with Vaness Henry or the Spacious App. I'm writing this review purely from my own perspective and experience because I couldn't find any...
I started reading The Scent of Empires by Karl Schögel and, as someone with smell cognition in human design, I felt suddenly inspired to write about engaging your (smell) super sense! I’m starting with smell because (of course) it’s mine. I’m most familiar with it;...
If you follow personal development, spirituality, manifestation, or any kind of business growth accounts/people/blogs/podcasts, I’m sure the phrase “You have to be comfortable being uncomfortable” has come up. I don’t disagree that growth and expansion can feel...
This post is meant to be a super quick summary of my go-to and recommended tools for trading and investing. If you want to learn about getting started as a swing trader, you can check out this post. Without further ado, here are my favourite tools for trading and...
If you feel lost or directionless and, as a result, feel like you constantly need to learn something new or acquire new skills, remember that knowledge and skills cannot give you a sense of direction. Knowledge and skills are not the end goal. Your bigger vision for...
I took a lot of time away from consciously thinking about human design. This was a really healthy thing for me, because I had been overthinking everything in the context of human design and, as a result, boxing myself in in a lot of ways (more about “leaving human...
March 2022 Update: Fun fact! I've recently learned my "soul urge" number in numerology is 8, which is all about money, power, abundance, etc. Of COURSE this is a big part of my life journey 😅. Stay tuned for future numerology posts! Original blog post: I was wrong...
“It’s not about what you’re doing, it’s how you’re being.” “Do less, earn more.” “Hustle culture is out!” “Rest, rest, rest!” I used to think I completely understood these. And I leaned in hard to them. Rest, you say? On it. There is no absence of “doing.” You are...
Okay, y’all. Pretty much since I first heard the word “Photoshop” (many, many years ago) I thought it was so complicated. As a photographer, I avoided using it as much as possible. I edit almost strictly in Lightroom (because, to me, it just clicks). I HAVE used...
I originally started writing this second instalment of my “Becoming Psychic” series back in FEBRUARY (2021). I know, I know. I came back to it in April and made some updates, and then...well, here we are, in November 2021, and I’m only just finishing it now...
It started in the Fall of 2020. The retreat into the cocoon. Who am I beneath all these layers? The ones I’ve created and the ones that have been placed on me? Who am I when mine are the only eyes watching? How do I see myself? Who do I envision myself to be? What...
“Um, wait, what did you just say, Melissa?” Let’s just do a quick intro on astral travel AKA astral projection. Astral travel is a kind of out-of-body experience in which one travels somewhere else. I’ve seen it described as something intentional, but I think...
I think for most people, the end of the calendar year is a time of reflection and, perhaps, planning for the year to come. I'm not really a planner. I tend to focus on the present and make decisions about the future when it becomes the present 😆 (seriously, the most...
So, as you may have read or seen, I started an OnlyFans account, which I talk about in this post, including why I decided to create it. Perhaps not surprisingly, one of the first concerns I heard, from multiple people, was, on the surface, safety-related. As in, “Are...
I started an OnlyFans account mere days ago, but I had actually been pondering it for some time. Here’s how that went in various conversations with friends: *Jokingly* “Maybe I’ll start an OF account, haha. Ha.” 👀 *Jokingly* “LOL, that could be the name of my OF...
